What's With All The Wildlife In Our House?
My friend Amanda has a friend named Hope who has a lot of grapes she doesn't know what to do with...enter the grape picker/stealer/opportunist: Angelina. Amanda and I picked a bunch of concord grapes to juice and some really amazing red grapes which might be Red Flames which tend to be small when grown in the home garden. They elicited Max's approval which is saying a lot. Something I've never seen him do before: choose to snack on grapes instead of a cereal bar when I'm not there to pressure him into eating the fruit. When he was in the Kung Fu waiting room while Philip and I took our class I spied Max pulling the bag of grapes I'd put in his bag of tricks and he ate them all. That almost floored me faster than my opponent.
Max spotted this guy on the floor near the fridge and we were all transfixed by the oddity. We've never found preying mantises in our yard before and here was this guy hanging out in our kitchen. This was the best picture I could get of him. We were in a bit of a rush as it was time for Max to walk to school with his dad. Here's what makes me so happy to see this guy: the more beneficial insects you have in your garden the healthier your garden ecology is likely to be. There will always be the villains* like aphids and white flies and cabbage moths. What you want to see are an equal number of butterflies, wasps, green lacewings, spiders, lady bugs, and preying mantises.Max said on his way out "What's with all the wildlife in our house?" referring to the orb weavers who've made their way inside, the moths, the stray bees, the grasshoppers the cats hunt and bring inside missing most of their legs.
This garden used to be heavily sprayed with weed killer. I can see no long term benefits to soaking your soil in poison, the minute you stop spraying the weeds come back full force. My yard is proof of that. And meanwhile you chase away all the good insects. That first summer we had a few ladybugs but not much else to combat the aphids and to pollinate and I know what a healthy garden fauna looks like. We had few bees or butterflies. This is typical of us: we buy houses from people who sterilize their yards either by religiously hacking down every bit of vegetation and letting the soil become poorer and poorer or by soaking every nook and cranny of the yard with poison. It has then been our task to lure the insects and good magic back to the yard by providing lush flowers, herbs, and vegetables beloved by aphids and white flies which, in turn, provide food for the larvae of ladybugs and lacewings.
I do understand needing to take care of an unusually devastating infestation of the "bad guys" (though why people can't all at the very least choose less toxic chemicals is a mystery to me) but you can't get rid of all the "bad guys" or you will get rid of the food source for many of the good guys. Balance is the key to all of life. When your garden is in balance you will see the aphids proliferate on your roses and just when they reach critical mass you will see the same roses strewn with the empty carcasses after the lady bugs and lacewings have discovered the rich feast and had time to lay their eggs and hatch some hungry larvae.
Can you believe I grew those carrots? I made them into a carrot ginger soup with lime and cilantro. It was very good. I also used potatoes to thicken it a bit. Potatoes from my garden. These little things give me a great deal of pleasure.
This morning it's raining. I love it! I was thinking I was going to have to go outside to water because the last few days have been very warm and a lot of my plants were looking droopy. Now I have time to sit here and write a post instead.
I have a mysterious disease on my mouth. I find it very distressing. If you are a person with a lot of anxiety or if you are friends with anyone who is very anxious, you may notice that any mysterious body issues become a little point of obsession. Sometimes the obsession turns out to be warranted, sometimes it doesn't. I'm not sure what the deal with my issue is but it has begun to reach the four alarm stage where I'm wondering if this is cancer or leprosy. It started with the corners of my mouth cracking. Painful. They were red and still haven't healed. Though it's not as bad as it was last week. I wasn't overly worried about it. I figured I got chapped lips and the corners cracked. I don't get cold sores so it wasn't that. Anyway, then a few days ago another part of my lip started tingling uncomfortably and a reddish slightly puffy area showed up and it worried me.
Even then I schooled myself not to be overly concerned. I am long familiar with the fact that these mysterious things crop up on bodies once in a while and then go away without killing you, making you into a monster of hideosity, or sending you to disease encampments of biblical proportions. I remind myself of the time I had a couple of scrapes that wouldn't heal and I became convinced I had AIDS and went to the Haight Street clinic, told my tale, and got laughed home because I am at such low risk for AIDS and aside from two little scrapes that were taking an unusually long time to heal- I was the picture of health. So I temper my natural tendency to be a hypochondriac.
But yesterday I noticed a couple more spots of this weird red slightly bumpy splotching on my lips and now I'm really weirded out. I look like a real movie star with my horribly splotchy mouth and...I have no idea what it could be. A fungus? That's creepy but is my main suspicion. Either that or some bizarre little virus that will simply have to course its way through my system and maim my beauty, such as it is, in the process.
By this point I would normally go to the doctor, seeing as this thing is spreading rather than shrinking. Which would almost certainly end in the doctor concluding that it's some type of mysterious dermatitis and that I just have to wait it out. So it's just as well that I can't afford to go to the doctor. Not even the clinic.
I wanted to put comfrey salve on it but don't have any. That's on my list of medicines to make. In spite of the money being pretty tight for the next 10 days, I figured I could afford to buy a little tin of Burt's Bee's comfrey salve. No household should be without comfrey salve. But Rite-Aid didn't have any. What I do have is the anti-fungal salve my mom and I made. It is not a pleasant taste sensation and putting it on my lips is not a nice experience but it has other healing properties besides the anti-fungal properties. So it can't hurt to try it, right? If I become a complete monster in the next ten days I will simply hide here at my house and see no one and go nowhere. If I am still a nasty horrible deformed creep when our next paychecks arrive I will hightail it to the clinic with my dollars in my fist.
I don't think it will come to that. A part of me is whispering reason into my head. It may be that my immune system is compromised. So I should also be drinking doses of my freshly made elderberry syrup. This will help build up my immune system strength. Somehow I don't think I'm going to die of some weird lip deformity.
I am reminded of how much I wish I had a good bathtub. I really need a good bathtub. I nice deep soaker. I truly believe that frequent soakings with essential oils and bath teas helps the skin resist all manner of freaky crap. It beautifies and it relaxes. A bathtub is often better than a doctor. And you know I have no beef with doctors, being that I need them for my head and the bath has never been proof against mental illness, but still, for many of life's milder bodily issues, I believe much relief is to be had by herbal bathing. So where the hell is my tub?!
Can you believe I grew those carrots? I made them into a carrot ginger soup with lime and cilantro. It was very good. I also used potatoes to thicken it a bit. Potatoes from my garden. These little things give me a great deal of pleasure.
This morning it's raining. I love it! I was thinking I was going to have to go outside to water because the last few days have been very warm and a lot of my plants were looking droopy. Now I have time to sit here and write a post instead.
I have a mysterious disease on my mouth. I find it very distressing. If you are a person with a lot of anxiety or if you are friends with anyone who is very anxious, you may notice that any mysterious body issues become a little point of obsession. Sometimes the obsession turns out to be warranted, sometimes it doesn't. I'm not sure what the deal with my issue is but it has begun to reach the four alarm stage where I'm wondering if this is cancer or leprosy. It started with the corners of my mouth cracking. Painful. They were red and still haven't healed. Though it's not as bad as it was last week. I wasn't overly worried about it. I figured I got chapped lips and the corners cracked. I don't get cold sores so it wasn't that. Anyway, then a few days ago another part of my lip started tingling uncomfortably and a reddish slightly puffy area showed up and it worried me.
Even then I schooled myself not to be overly concerned. I am long familiar with the fact that these mysterious things crop up on bodies once in a while and then go away without killing you, making you into a monster of hideosity, or sending you to disease encampments of biblical proportions. I remind myself of the time I had a couple of scrapes that wouldn't heal and I became convinced I had AIDS and went to the Haight Street clinic, told my tale, and got laughed home because I am at such low risk for AIDS and aside from two little scrapes that were taking an unusually long time to heal- I was the picture of health. So I temper my natural tendency to be a hypochondriac.
But yesterday I noticed a couple more spots of this weird red slightly bumpy splotching on my lips and now I'm really weirded out. I look like a real movie star with my horribly splotchy mouth and...I have no idea what it could be. A fungus? That's creepy but is my main suspicion. Either that or some bizarre little virus that will simply have to course its way through my system and maim my beauty, such as it is, in the process.
By this point I would normally go to the doctor, seeing as this thing is spreading rather than shrinking. Which would almost certainly end in the doctor concluding that it's some type of mysterious dermatitis and that I just have to wait it out. So it's just as well that I can't afford to go to the doctor. Not even the clinic.
I wanted to put comfrey salve on it but don't have any. That's on my list of medicines to make. In spite of the money being pretty tight for the next 10 days, I figured I could afford to buy a little tin of Burt's Bee's comfrey salve. No household should be without comfrey salve. But Rite-Aid didn't have any. What I do have is the anti-fungal salve my mom and I made. It is not a pleasant taste sensation and putting it on my lips is not a nice experience but it has other healing properties besides the anti-fungal properties. So it can't hurt to try it, right? If I become a complete monster in the next ten days I will simply hide here at my house and see no one and go nowhere. If I am still a nasty horrible deformed creep when our next paychecks arrive I will hightail it to the clinic with my dollars in my fist.
I don't think it will come to that. A part of me is whispering reason into my head. It may be that my immune system is compromised. So I should also be drinking doses of my freshly made elderberry syrup. This will help build up my immune system strength. Somehow I don't think I'm going to die of some weird lip deformity.
I am reminded of how much I wish I had a good bathtub. I really need a good bathtub. I nice deep soaker. I truly believe that frequent soakings with essential oils and bath teas helps the skin resist all manner of freaky crap. It beautifies and it relaxes. A bathtub is often better than a doctor. And you know I have no beef with doctors, being that I need them for my head and the bath has never been proof against mental illness, but still, for many of life's milder bodily issues, I believe much relief is to be had by herbal bathing. So where the hell is my tub?!
I'm off to do a few more internet things and then I will be making grape syrup in the hopes of using it to make home made grape soda for Max. I hope you are all having a great Saturday morning. Maybe snug in your houses doing fall things with family or having a peaceful morning to yourself.
*I call them villains because they destroy what us humans want to cultivate but they really aren't bad. It's merely our perspective and our needs that make us see them that way.
*I call them villains because they destroy what us humans want to cultivate but they really aren't bad. It's merely our perspective and our needs that make us see them that way.

Comments (22)
Preying mantises are a sign for good luck, transformation and spiritual self-recognition!!!! This IS a VERY GOOD sign!!!
Posted by Islandgirl | September 19, 2009 9:04 AM
Posted on September 19, 2009 09:04
The splotchy-cracky-yucky lip thing sounds like a cold sore. You can get these randomly or when stressed! It can't hurt to ask Dr. Google about it and see what you come up with.
Beautiful grapes! I am always impressed with what you grow, it amazes me that real people can grow food and it looks delicious! All I've ever grown is some herbs that die quickly :/
Good luck!
Posted by Laura | September 19, 2009 9:49 AM
Posted on September 19, 2009 09:49
I was going to say something inappropriate about your carrots, well then I will...they look very thick and I am sure they are tasty. I miss planting carrots this year but next year we are growing them all over!
Maybe your lip thing is herpes? Not to add to the hysteria. Don't end up like my sister and search the internet to come up with a horrible disease you might have. :) Hope you are feeling or looking better soon.
Posted by amy | September 19, 2009 11:00 AM
Posted on September 19, 2009 11:00
Hi, I've only commented here once before, but I think I know about this lip thing.
Here's my story.
I had a cracking problem like that, it haunted me for over two years, It would almost heal, then crack again. An area near the crack on my upper lip also, occasionally, felt a little thin and reddened with little bumps like widely spaced goosebumps. It was more often cracked than not, very frustrating.
The dentist pointed it out and prescribed a terrible tasting anti-fungal cream that didn't work. (so much for poisons)(I think the pharmacist substituted it with a foot cream)
We had been changing our diets to reduce our meat intake, and walking
about 3 miles a day to lose weight.
We were being very active, raising our first set of 9 hens. But we were saving most of our eggs for friends and family.
We now have 67 hens, and now we eat many, many eggs. The cracking is gone. Healed and sealed from the inside.
My guess is that your body needs a greater amount of protein, what with all the Kung-fu, biking and grape thievery.
Extra protein could help your body stitch things up from the inside.
Perhaps your hens are resting lately, and the production of eggs might have been low recently?
We would like to give you a bunch of our eggs, It might help your body catch up and beat this thing early.
Do you have our email?
Please contact us.
Thanks for your wonderful writing.
Team Fuji
Posted by Fuji | September 19, 2009 11:36 AM
Posted on September 19, 2009 11:36
I love having good luck charms in my yard!
I believe this must be a cold sore. I haven't ever had one on my mouth (nor on my privates, just in case you were worried) but I did once get a fever blister on my hand and so I must have the Herpes Simplex 1 virus in my body. My mom gets them all the time.
Nice. So I hope this isn't going to be a new phase of disease and decrepitude for me. How did I escape cold sores my whole life only to get one now? Ah well. I'm just not going to worry about it much. Stress can make them happen so I imagine it could make them take longer to go away too.
At least this means it's not likely that I have leprosy or cancer. Yay!
Anyway, I won't let this little aberration in my general well being ruin a wonderful morning. I'm off to post my Elderberry syrup making instructions on Stitch and Boots. Then I make grape juice!
Posted by angelina | September 19, 2009 11:36 AM
Posted on September 19, 2009 11:36
Hi Team Fuji- you commented a very long time ago! I would never turn down eggs- but I really doubt I've got a protein deficiency. I am addicted to eating eggs so when our hens aren't laying (you're right, they're not laying right now- moulting instead!) I buy them from Harvest Fresh or Roth's. Not only do I eat 2-3 eggs a day (shut up you egg haters!) I also eat cheese every day. I generally also eat a lot of beans (lentils, black beans, white beans). I don't have your e-mail but if you have lots of extra eggs I would love some- do I have anything you would want in trade? Homemade pickles? Peach preserves? A potholder? Some Mrs. Meyers handsoap refills? (I have those big refills). So send me a note to: angelinawilliamson1atgmaildotcom.
Posted by angelina | September 19, 2009 11:52 AM
Posted on September 19, 2009 11:52
It sounds more like contact dermatitis--also known as irritant dermatitis--than a cold sore (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Contact_dermatitis).
And it might very well be connected to your tonic drinking in that: "When limes are squeezed into beverages, excess juice remains on the skin. Sun exposure of this lime juice produces areas of dermatitis or hyperpigmentation."
Posted by Blaize | September 19, 2009 1:05 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:05
Just do a google search for "contact dermatitis" "lime juice".
Posted by Blaize | September 19, 2009 1:07 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:07
Well that just sucks! It very well might be contact dermatitis. I guess it's a good thing that this coming week I am going to start weaning myself down from all the tonic and lime and try to mix in some mineral water with unsweetened cranberry juice next. This is a beverage that once I am not drinking as much beer is easier for me to get into. I really like it because a splash of unsweetened cranberry juice is enough to make me pucker up something serious (I like very tart and slightly bitter drinks, can you tell? Yet I don't like bitter greens. Go figure.) This is because there are a lot fewer calories in the mineral water with splash of cranberry and I would like now to not be as fat. We'll see how it goes.
Posted by angelina | September 19, 2009 1:19 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:19
Sorry. It's just that the timing suggests the lime juice as the culprit, doesn't it?
Hate to say it, but quinine can also cause contact dermatitis, as well as being interactive with some psych meds.
Posted by Blaize | September 19, 2009 1:37 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:37
Unfortunately, cranberries also contain quinine. Anyway, I think the best thing would be to eliminate the lime juice first, since that's really more likely what's causing your sore mouth. If it goes away, then you're okay with the quinine in the tonic water, and can switch to cranberry and mineral water with no worries about the quinine in cranberries.
Posted by Blaize | September 19, 2009 1:42 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:42
Worse and Worse! Oh well. Yes, I actually think you're onto something here. I was out in the fierce sun at a rose garden right before this started up and I have been consuming large quantities of limes and tonic water.
Here I thought I was doing myself such a great favor by not being such a lush. I just can't win.
Is there nothing tasty that I can drink in vice-like quantities without harming myself?
Posted by angelina | September 19, 2009 1:44 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:44
Oh, and I have a question: do you call it a preying mantis (as opposed to a praying mantis, which is the common name) on purpose to emphasize the predatory nature of the creature?
Posted by Blaize | September 19, 2009 1:44 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:44
Because moderation is not a word I comprehend.
Posted by angelina | September 19, 2009 1:44 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:44
Uh, no, I spelled it incorrectly because I failed to look it up and my spell check didn't alert me. I spell "gray" "grey. I like the "e" better and in the case of the color it can be spelled either way. However, this time was just sheer laziness. I have never had to spell "Praying Mantis" before in my life.
Posted by angelina | September 19, 2009 1:49 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:49
Yes, it sucks, because you are trying to do yourself a favor by not drinking beer, and look what happens!
Since you like bitter, could you try Campari or Angostura and soda water? I know they have alcohol, but you can use them in such a small quantity (i.e. a dash of bitters) as to not have them effect you. Also, soda water doesn't have calories, and while Campari does have quinine, it doesn't have much, and you would use so little.
Posted by Blaize | September 19, 2009 1:54 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 13:54
I do love angostura bitters (boy would I like to get a recipe for making something like that!!!) but am used to putting it in champagne. Not sure if I would like it in soda water- but there's no reason for me not to try it! Oh, yeah, that amount of alcohol isn't a problem. I just need something tasty to drink all evening while I wind down that I can have as much of as I want without adverse affects. Hot herbal tea doesn't really do it for me these days. Though I have loved tea all my life (both black and herbal...but the black stuff I can't drink much of because of caffeine). How do you know about quinine being in all these different beverages? Have you done quinine research? I love your noggin full of information.
Posted by angelina | September 19, 2009 2:28 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 14:28
Oh.... and I just cut and pasted off of your post to spell preying...praying mantis... see what you started??? Hahaha.... I was being lazy as well....
Posted by Islandgirl | September 19, 2009 3:14 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 15:14
Your carrots are beautiful! Oh how I love carrot-ginger soup. I didn't plant carrots this spring/summer and really missed having them. Honestly, I took on far too much with the garden extension that now all I want to do is close the door and not see it for months...but I may still plant some lettuce, spinach and chard.
Your mouth sores sound very much like what I had when I was a teenager. Cracked mouth corners that were very sore and wouldn't heal. My mother told me it was from the herpes simplex virus, as you said. Zinc deficiency is a common cause as is stress and a low immune system. The stress you've been under the past several months could have contributed to your immune system being under attack. I would suggest kombucha tea...have you made that before?
Posted by Kathy | September 19, 2009 10:30 PM
Posted on September 19, 2009 22:30
If you lived here it would be grey not gray, so you are right.
If the sore didn't tingle it might not be a cold sore, my daughter gets them when she is run down. Last time she had them she also developed impetigo as a secondary infection, which lives on the skin but can flare up when your immune system is under pressure. Impetigo is a blistery, crusty kind of sore. She says you should post a picture so we can all help with your hypochondria.
The preying mantis is really cool, my 6 year old son thinks it's amazing.
Posted by French Knots | September 20, 2009 9:07 AM
Posted on September 20, 2009 09:07
No, I did all the quinine research after I started looking for an alternative to tonic water (which I did know contains quinine). Only then did I learn about quinine in Campari and cranberry juice. I have a black belt in GoogleFu.
Posted by Blaize | September 20, 2009 8:47 PM
Posted on September 20, 2009 20:47
Thank you for a great post
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